If someone was cremated and the ashes given to someone, there is no cemetery. Find A Grave continues its mission to provide a collaborative community where members can contribute memorials and record burial dispositions If you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Find A Grave, please do not hesitate to contact senior administration directly at support@findgrave.com Sincerely, Find A Grave It is a wonderful thing we all do here, but historians need to not only just walk the grave yards then make a memorial so they can get their numbers up. If is is not removed by Friday June 3rd 2022 there will be action taken against ancestry and find a grave. This will give you a space to inform the manager of the memorial about the use of the wrong photo. Did I post the information of the drunk teenager that killed her? Create a findagrave.com account and then click "suggest edits" and then there will be an option to request management of the memorial. She flatly refuses to give it up. posts. Plan to go early in the day, in case it takes you a while to find the exact location. If you are having problems with your account or have questions about content on the site, please use the Account Question or Support Request option. This commonplace.Memorial Park themed cemeteries. Back then it was a site consisting of records of celebrities and their burial sites. - had parents of someone posted in the wrong cemetery, so I photocopied the page from the cemetery book & posted it on the pages for her parents to show correct place of burial, Ladybug threw a fit, reported me & I got the boot; Ladybug was rude as heck to me in several emails, but I guess that doesnt matter. I attempted to get Megan Heyl to turn these memorials back over to the family. Search consumer complaints, reviews and information about find-a-grave. Well for all the money findagrave is apparently making if they want my help fulfilling the hundreds of requests in my local graveyard then they'e going to have to pull some money out of that old sock and put up. Click here to get notifications about new complaints of Find A Grave. They do nothing about it. We are all individuals of different expectations of this site. I took photos and also added baby pictures to a memorial I created on FindAGrave. Please complete the captcha to let us know you are a real person. Yes, I know what they are supposed to do.. they suspended you like how they suspended me right today. For consumers, it can happen through online feedback forms or customer service countersbut consumer complaints are a separate matter. This is a warped site managed by sub human creatures that crawled out from public sewers. Once the memorial is completed Findagrave turns the memorial over to one of their major contributors who thus adds personal information about the deceased and their families they have swiped from the net. now findagrave even suspended me and deleted my dead freind burial records. This is not precious. I can see why they dropped you. Therefore, those records are not searchable. About the company This site has been active for more than 20 years, first appearing online way back in 1995. BEWARE of this websites. All that info is gone now! These indexes on Ancestry.com are free to use by everyone, whether you have a subscription or not. I probably could get it back if I bought Megan Heyl a cart load of cheezos. Its stated mission is "to help people from all over the world work together to find, record and present final disposition information as a virtual cemetery experience." You create a Memorial for a deceased loved one. The rationale: They do not want a resting place for the dead to be devourered by FindAGrave's cyber knowitall undertakers. If so, we already had this talk. It is owned by Ancestry.com. There are many kind and helpful people on F/A/G. Do u know. It is owned by Ancestry and Ancestry is not owned by the church. Nasty sorry this happened to you it certainly shouldnt happened. Manager bases their reasoning for not correcting this on a cemetery advertisement that was below my loved one's obituary and responded that "you don't know what you're talking about." They are getting fresh air and exercise. Although, I bet you could associate ANY activity as a contest - you seem to have a GIANT chip on your shoulder about this. Find a Grave Team November 17, 2020 at 10:42 am Hi Marsha, please contact support@findagrave.com and explain this situation with details and we'll look into this further. Sometimes if you ask nicely, someone will comply with your wishes. The faithful go there to have extended families, extended spouses and an eternity of children/ For those who don't make it there a lower levela work camp of sorts kind of like a purgatory. If they deny, I would then forward the email to support@findagrave.com, to request an immediate release of ownership of memorial, from current owner to you. If you've done anything that was recorded, it's there. Find a Grave - Millions of Cemetery Records World's largest gravesite collection. Another example is Captain Samuel Chew, who died on 4 Mar 1778. Some person going by Ladybug (member #[protected]) {note doesn't even use a REAL name, address, email, etc.} An alternative - Forever Missed. There's an etiquette to these things, whether anyone follows it or not. Man it's their photo not your photo. That Find a Grave be consistent. (they are in many places) Marriages and divorces? Find a Grave uses volunteers to assemble burial/body disposition details about individuals. I contacted FindAGrave and they ignored my requests even though their new rules of conduct r very explicit that when confronted these "major contributors" supposed to turn memorials back to the family. May I add most of the memorials r created by bored housewives who make a game of how many of these things they can make. I arrived on this page because I just had a conversation with my husband that when I pass away not to have an obituary published in newspaper and to only have a headstone with my name, no date of birth or death. It is both hurtful and embarrassing to family members. Find contact information for federal, state, and local government officials. We all have ancestors we like to memorialize. I made no comments about the timeline of adding memorials, scanning of obituaries, nor any comment about how many memorials certain people have. And we are all volunteers. i tried to explain the situation but they stopped replying. Concerns Anne McKay buried in Templeogue cemetery,Dublin,Ireland- date of death 13 February 1962. listed divorce dates, ex spouses names and material of a more private nature our family did not want to share with the world. I'm going to contact them again and if it's not resolved I will have to see what legal action I can take, Find A Grave's top contributor cyber ghouls r banned from photographing tombstones. So then what, do you expect to get paid anyway? If anyone asks me to remove their family members headstone I will gladly do so, if you can prove you are a direct relative. So I am very sorry for your loss, as I still have pot gotten over mine, fortunately for me, I now have a nine year old granddaughter from my son. Is this your company? ^^^^^Seems to me that they are taking advantage of the people doing the photography. Somehow my email address was changed and I am no longer allowed to sign in as info comes up "does not match" I have written to Finda Grave many times requesting a correction. This person has harassed me even on created memorials I worked hard on. At the time he was a soldier in the 26th Cameronians Regiment. Desired outcome: Find a grave.com photographed my 6 year old daughter's headstone and put it online. Fire Sarah, the evil administrator who removed my account, and threatened to have me arrested because she refused to treat me the same as other members. Salt Lake City UT. Hey James, I have visit grave site that someone had taken a picture of headstones by the time I got there years later the headstone was clean and more visible. There have been 250K claims filed against the government. If you have specific examples, please forward those in the email to us. It is purely disgusting what they do, I understand the bit of finding relatives and such, however adding details like that is just revolting. However, I owe much to volunteers on the site who have posted information that I would never have been able to obtain without a major roadtrip with a quick visit to the website. Please enter your email address and we will send you an email with a reset password code. Desired outcome: Totally agree. Even if it's only photo share, if you not ask owner. That's a lot of money. Anyone who makes a free FindAGrave account can add memorial pages. For the record I am 75 years old and thinks it pretty [censored]ty of FindAGrave to respond in such a way. She refused. #HYPOCRITES, Desired outcome: You can customize the cemeteries you volunteer for by selecting or deselecting below. Anyone walking a cemetery can find DOB. Near the bottom of the edit page, you will see Other, press '+Suggest other corrections'. And almost as many gravestone photos. send in corrections! I have complained to Find A Grave several times about misinformation on my family site (father, grandfather, grandmother and great grandparents) and use of their head stones without my permission. Learn more about requesting management here. To suggest an update, go to the memorial and click the Suggest Edits button below the birth and death information. Chances are you will find the cemetery you are looking for. Are you going to blame the owner (Photo copyright owner) by saying that facebook is really public, every photo you put can be stolen anytime by any online person. They play upon emotion. Nothing has been done and I'm upset! File a complaint with the Better Business Bureau. all the info that told about who he was related to, and the story that was in the newspaper is gone from his web site now . My name is Bill Sky-Eagle. I noticed that this "TeeJLee" person likes to read reviews from complaintsboard, take out a small piece of the review he doesn't agree with or can easily rebute against, and reply to the reviewer's complaint with full-out nonsense and insult. ComplaintsBoard.com is a leading complaint resolution website on the Internet. But thanks for hijacking this thread. As a young man he joined. The actual property is owned by the cemetery or county/state and what you, me and the rest of the world "owns" is the space set aside for our loved ones. i was disappointed because i have been looking for his interment for years but i was even more disapointed when the owner of the memorial refused to change the listed cemetery i emailed find a grave about this and it took them 1 month to respond they told me that if i could not prove they aren't buried there then they will help. Do you want your child forgotten? Too bad someone doesn't start a class action lawsuit against "Find A Grave." No materials from this website may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, or distributed in any way. Many f## people are very unfriednly, when ladybug reported you, findagrave banned you so you can NOT see anything. Find A Grave started in 1995 developed to cater to founder Jim Tipton's hobby of visiting celebrity's graves the company's mission is to post memorials, remembrances, and virtual flowers of celebrities and every-day people 180 million+ memorials, some have gravestone images and some do not BillionGraves started in 2010 Remove the name of the original creator & the number from their count when the memorial is transferred to a family member. Open your mind, open your heart a bit, have some respect for fellow Users and please utilize other websites if you don't like a specific one. I really do not care what other people think, or if it is public record. (They want to email Ms. DiMarco to ask if shes related to MY grandparents). Just so you know. The info on him was compiled by several members, and info from members of the Montgomery county Md. It is invasion of privacy, and simply does not follow any morals. Desired outcome: Many people enjoy walking through cemeteries and taking pictures. Findagrave does not relinquish hold on a memorial when their representative is not reachable to contact. Or at least you were, as I'm replying to this years after your post. She was an infant and her headstone on find a grave is a way of keeping her memory alive with some who never knew her. Hi Sharon! If someone complains about an individual contributor to Find a Grave, Find a Grave will pick on that contributor through the use of some type of monitoring technology. findagrave can no longer secure any dead grave names. My condolences to you and your family. That shows me they DID NOT do the research correctly on the memorial. The person who stole them claims to be related although they arent and they have never met any of my family. I have contacted them and they refuse to remove it. But these body chasers today don't even wait until after the funeral to post the memorial, I have had people steal watermarked photos i personally took and posted of my loved ones and they add them to other ancestry sites and pretend they are their own or they post them to totally different people. Findagrave is a profitable business. Their memorials should be taken over by Find A Grave, and Find A Grave can follow the rules it sets forth. if NJ harass, report to findagrave. They are more interested in grabbing a tombstone in hopes of getting brownie points. I am absolutely revolted! THAT's THE REAL DISHONOR. Was unaware of postings for my 8 year old daughter and recently deceased mother-in-law. This includes both general and info of a more private nature that most families do nor want published on the net. Most of us do it to honor your family member and to ensure in 100 years, their descents have a way to feel more connected. Spare me. how many tomb photo taken is no longer a meaning anymore. No materials from this website may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, or distributed in any way. I have a person doing that with my relatives on my grandparents side of the family and he refuses to turn them over to me. Please reset your password. Failure of Wendy Ebenstein Norman to transfer my grandfather's Memorial Page to me, after numerous requests. Gatsey, check Find A Grave's Help section to make sure you are sending your messages to the correct email address. This is very basic courtesy. Review the Help section for answers to the most common questions. And, if so, where. Bill Sky-Eagle. If you really not wish photo being f###ed by starngers, dont put them on line The point hasn't anything to do with the validity of Find A Grave, but rather do you want you family added to their lists and plastered all over the net. I would email the cemetery asking if they could please verify whether or not John Flint, birth date-death date, is indeed buried there. Some of us are private people and just want to be left alone. This person stalks and harasses me by following my flowers i leave on thousands of memorials. see that photo on findagrave site. Find A Grave is a database of known final dispositions. Kind regards. internet is free to use. My problem is with the company who does not do a better job of arbitrating with people who want to hoard other people's relatives. She said "you can not ruin people precious hard work" which makes me underlook her. Find A Grave is a free website providing access to and an opportunity to input cemetery information to an online database of cemetery records. ----- And as far as "trampling on a grave" I am ALWAYS careful to NOT step on any grave (provided there's still any indication of one) and use my zoom lens instead. Ancestry manages Find a Grave. Find a Grave is an online community project. However with "Forever Missed" you r the creator and nobody can come along and take control. BS..Find A Grave is a hang out for graveyard ghouls. In other words, if the contact person is "not accepting messages, " and they do this intentionally, you won't be able to reach them, to request management control. I had my fathers memorial, my grandfathers, my grandmother, my great grand parents stolen from my control by someone who isn't related. I even added a picture of my relative and the person told@ me to take it down. When I started genealogy research 2 years ago I was grateful to find information on loved ones. Learn how to play nice. Once the memorial is completed Findagrave turns the memorial over to one of their major contributors who thus adds personal information about the deceased and their families they have swiped from the net. If you don't want her known, then remove her headstone or put her in a more private place (urn). I don't love how Find A Grave is run and it irks me that much of the information on the site is really terribly inaccurate, but presented in a manner that makes many people take it as fact, and impossible to correct or contribute to with the territorial attitude that the managing of memorials seems to foster. I have been a member of Find a Grave for almost 16 years, and work constantly to upgrade other Find a Grave memorials. The family moved to the Mohawk Community in Greene County when Tom was three years old because the Norris Dam took their farm. Method 1 Searching Individual Headstones 1 Visit the cemetery if you know where it is. Search famous graves, newly added graves, most popular graves. Find the graves of ancestors, create virtual memorials or add photos, virtual flowers and a note to a loved one's memorial. And Ancestry owns Find a Grave. Brought in dead to The Meath Hospital, Heytesbury Street, Dublin, having had a Coronary Occlusion & Paroxysmal Tachycardia, certified She means, if she goes around grave, to glorify herself and her findagrave records. Action, and change of name on Memorial or transfer to myself so I can put pertinent information on the Memorial. 2. just disappeared ? Found more than one record for entered Email, You need to confirm this account before you can sign in. Find or Report a Scam using BBB Scam Tracker. If you notice a problem with the translation, please send a message to [emailprotected] and include a link to the page and details about the problem. There are very few privately owned cemeteries in the US. She claims she has THE RIGHT to document what she pleases. you are lucky enough to find findagrave steal your daughter photo but it's just a fortune you find out, many people online may use your daughter photos already. . I dont think anyone takes photos of headstones to hurt anyone but only to help others find where their ancestors/relatives were laid to rest and to preserve history. I'm pretty sure I know whose behind this, I have figured it out. Every one listen, this website is a blessing to everyone that's on it, it was put here to view memorials and find peace. It's not on the tombstone and it was a nickname given to him by coworker where he worked for 4 years from [protected]. people would mistaken that she had died. Request a headstone photo or snap one yourself and share it instantly. My estranged sister became Manager on my fathers site and added a nickname to his name on the site. Submit a complaint and get your issue resolved. Sad, because I do not want to return to the site now. Find a Grave is a volunteer project. Find A Grave is not owned by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Running Deer takes his memorial [protected] down. My response is that there are too many members on Find A Grave who do NOT follow the rules. Stop awarding points like trophies. cemeteries found in will be saved to your photo volunteer list. I don't see the point in the complaint. My thoughts were not on the heartless soul collectors of Find A Grave when I heard the news. I have been a member of Find-A-Grave for close to 9 months and submitted over a thousand photos and memorials that many people are grateful to find. Anne Maher McKay To a point, I don't blame him. How do messages work? A gentleman named John has added the below message concerning my mother.I and my brothers and sisters would like this to be deleted out of respect for our mother.I don't accept that an outsider can access documents and without family consent write what they deem necessary.We cannot even contact this John.Would you please delete this information.There is a family behind this message and who live to this very day thinking of their mother who was taken from them so early in life.Authorisation was not given for this message to be inserted. Nothing is sacred here. and your account will be suspended. MANY people are SEARCHING for their relatives, and they can not afford to fly to every cemetery in AmericaThank God people CARE ENOUGH to go to the cemeteries and take pictures, and post them on the ONLY FREE SITE of it's kind, find a grave! I had been a member for several years. You can suggest additions or corrections and the manager can choose to use those to improve the memorial. A community of members that work together, share information and help people from all over the world to find, record and present final disposition information as a virtual cemetery experience. There was facks about my Grate grand mother that had been compiled on his web site telling where she was born in Ireland, all the exact details about her life, Who her brother was ? The nice thing about "Forever Missed" the memorial is yours. I mean, it's a "public" cemetery, not one in private family hands and as mentioned in a earlier post, when you die the privacy is gone, period. FindAGrave is pure grossess. The new marker really looked nice. I have been in a cemetery when a church group of about 30 swooped in and started downloading headstones. We are no longer private people. Read full review of Find A Grave and 1 comment. The Find a Grave app is a great way to use and add to the world's largest free online collection of burial information. You can always change this later in your Account settings. Yet, often it is the only remaining record about a person's survivors, due to the fact that Ancestry does not have all possible records indexed. A. A short while later while attempting to add more to the child's photo I found out I was no longer in charge of the site. I am also a member of Ancestry which owns FindaGrave, yet there has been no correction and no help. This will surely increase the credibility of your complaint. Find a Grave contains information for over 500,000 cemeteries in 244 different countries! Find a Grave states that this is against their guidelines. Memorials of: Robert Paul Carmichael #[protected] and Jessie Jacobs Carmichael #[protected], Untrue Information Re: Memorial #[protected], Uneven application of Find a Grave guidelines, Read full review of Find A Grave and 4 comments, Read full review of Find A Grave and 6 comments, 16 years' experience in successful complaint resolution, Each complaint is handled individually by highly qualified experts, Last but not least, all our services are absolutely free. ComplaintsBoard.com is a leading complaint resolution website on the Internet. especially if the girl is even NOT DEAD YET. I need to confirm my email address with Find a Grave..I don't know why is a leget address..I was thinking maybe all a SCAM. Second, for anyone on here who has lost a loved one and finds the work we do (freely without pay and out of the kindness of our hearts most of us anyway) "disgusting, or that it infringes on your privacy, copyright laws and personal property", I am sorry that you feel that way. It shouldn't be about having 7, 000 memorials, nor should anyone "own" a cemetery (I had an issue with a woman over that as well and finally decided the hell with her, if she didn't have one of the people buried, than I added it). He must of went through the grave yard and saw this grave with my nephews middle name and last name on his temporary marker. Doesn't bring back my daughter, but at least helps. You must ask permission from the deceased person's family before you take those headstone photos. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but yes I have been there, and what your feeling now, will not be shared by other relatives 50 years from now as they look at your daughters memorial with love or to research their kin. You don't not belong on complaintsboard. Claim it and get a lot of features. Not true! What I do know is this tracking down ancestor graves is HARD work. or "PRECIOUS HARD WORK" IF IT BOTHERS YOU, GO FIND THE BURIAL YOURSELF IF YOU THINK IT"S EASY. All I can add is just be respectful, if someone asks you to transfer a family member or asks you to take something down, I would go ahead and do it. Be mindful of what you say and you must have respect in dealing with this. Often obituaries are no longer findable, after a certain length of time. This monitor controls about 300,000 or more memorials and is on a power trip and politics. Again, it's only a website overrun by volunteers so move on. This account already exists, but the email address still needs to be confirmed. Most likely FindAGrave will also threaten u with law enforcement for stalking in addition to legal action.